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The Ultimate Guide to Hinge Prompts That Get Responses

Photos get the match, but prompts get the date. According to Pew Research, 64% of users say shared interests are the #1 thing they look for.

Jan 1, 2026 10 min readAAurale Team

Hinge is unique because it forces users to like specific parts of your profile. Prompts are your secret weapon. If your photos are average but your prompts are elite, you will outperform a "good looking" profile that lacks personality.

Why Prompts Matter

A good prompt lowers the "activation energy" required to send a message. A bad prompt forces the other person to think: "What do I even say to this?"

Your goal is to create Message Bait.

1. The Conversation Starter

This prompt basically writes the opening line for them.

Prompt: "Together we could..."

"Critique the best burger spots in the city until we find the 10/10."

Why it works: Suggests a specific date idea (burgers) and a fun dynamic (critiquing).

Prompt: "I get way too excited about..."

"Finding cheap flights to places I can't pronounce."

Why it works: Shows travel interest without being generic ("I love travel").

2. The Personality Reveal

This is where you show, don't tell. Instead of saying "I'm funny," be funny.

Good vs Bad

Boring ❌"I like fun."
"I love The Office."
"I'm adventurous."
Engaging ✅"I will beat you at Mario Kart."
"I quote Michael Scott in inappropriate situations."
"I once got lost in Tokyo for 6 hours."

3. The Polarizing Opinion

Being universally liked is impossible. Being specifically liked is the goal. Polarizing prompts filter out people you wouldn't get along with and attract your tribe.

  • "Unpopular opinion: Pineapple belongs on pizza." (Classic, safe)
  • "I'm irrationally angry about: People who stand on the left side of the escalator." (Relatable annoyance)

Prompts to Avoid

Please, for the love of the algorithm, delete these immediately:

"I'm overly competitive about everything"
(Sound exhausting)
"The way to my heart is food"
(Generic)
"Looking for a partner in crime"
(Cliché)

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