Why Video Calls Before the First Date Boost Success Rates in 2024

Propose a 5‑10 minute video chat as a "quick hello" rather than a full‑blown interview. Use a neutral platform (Zoom, FaceTime, or the app’s built‑in video) and pick a time that works for both parties. Keep the tone light—mention you’re curious to hear the voice behind the profile.

• Send a friendly invitation: "Hey, would you like a quick video to say hi?"
• Agree on a time slot and stick to it.
• Test your camera and lighting beforehand.

Start with a simple ice‑breaker (favorite recent movie, weekend hobby). Then ask two deeper questions that reveal values—e.g., "What’s a cause you care about?" or "What’s a travel experience that changed you?" End with a brief recap: "I enjoyed this, would love to meet for coffee next week?" This structure keeps the call purposeful yet relaxed.

• Limit the call to 10 minutes to avoid fatigue.
• Take note of non‑verbal cues: eye contact, facial expressions.
• Confirm interest in a real‑world date before ending.

• Propose a short, casual video chat to set expectations.
• Use a clear, friendly ice‑breaker and two deeper questions.
• Observe body language for authenticity.
• Close with a concrete plan for the first in‑person date.